I had the most wonderful morning with my new friend, Eva Olsson.
We recorded my Hunter’s Bay Radio show and
I will share that in another blog.

But today is May 15, 2019, and I wanted to commemorate that
75 years ago today…

It was the final journey with my family. It was the day they took us away to Auschwitz. And this moment today, which I have been given with this beautiful hostess (hostess chokes up!) allows me to keep my family’s spirit alive.
That’s what this day means.

So this day, May 15th, 1944, the Nazis took your family away—a four day
ride to Auschwitz—and your life changed forever. And on April 15th, 1945…

I was reborn. I was given the gift of life. And now I have a responsibility
to give it back, to share. (the day they were liberated by the British and
Canadian Army). Eva, after 50 years of silence has chosen the path of healing,
of helping people to NOT be silent and to accept each other. She is a light
in the world. (she has been speaking for 23 years; she is 94 years young!)

To anyone who has survived anything horrific in their lives—such as the
Holocaust most certainly—I want to send you love and know that there is
always hope for a different life.

And we can make the choice to not give up, not to be defeated.
If you have that choice, don’t allow yourself to be defeated.
Because then they win over you.

Eva, if you can live an attitude of gratitude, hope, healing and acceptance that certainly gives the rest of us the opportunity to do the same.
So I thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for being a light in this world.

Sending love to anyone who has been through trauma in their lives,
and know there is always hope for a new life.

​There always is.  

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Hi everyone! I am back in the Hunters Bay Studio with my good friend Saree
who is sportin’ the fuchsia hair and pony tail- and boots to match!

Saree and I spoke in September 2017 on the radio. Can you believe it was
that long ago? No. We shared your journey with anorexia, and we just had
another show and you shared your updated story. You are amazing.
I have included the link from the first show below.

What would you say to the people who are battling anorexia, or an eating disorder, or know someone who is struggling? What is some quick advice you can share?

It sucks. But it is totally worth it to keep going. It’s not going to be straight,
it’s not going to be easy, but the end goal, the end life, what you see
on the other side…is so worth it.

Never ever ever ever give up on yourself, and never give up on somebody else.
If you see something, say something. If someone is struggling, don’t try and
take it on yourself. It is nobody’s job to fix it but it can be partly your job to
do what you can- whatever that may be.

Even if it is super small- a text message, a phone call. Just check in.
Ask how they are doing, just do it.

Find someone that can help. I encourage you to listen to both shows,
Saree, thank you for your amazing-ness you have accomplished so much
and as you said this will be something you carry with you.
There may be ups and downs and that is OK too. Never give up.

There is always another side. Like coming home to my new puppy and my fiancée!

You have created a wonderful life and I am just so proud of you!
Thanks! (It’s a good life :)

Listen to Saree
​ First Interview Here


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Hey everyone, Geordie here… Not sure I have had a chance to meet
all of you or if any of you know who I am but my official title is
Co-Founder of Love Your Life to Death, however most people know me as
“that guy” that gets the stuff done or really to be truthful it is
“Oh! That’s Yvonne’s husband!”
 
I wanted to let you know that some of the things we are going to be doing
this year. I am going to be slowly taking over and helping out with some 
(don't worry... Yvonne's the favourite...) of our weekly blogs, so you will see a little bit more from me and sharing some stories and messages.

The other thing I wanted to tell you about is we are going to be introducing a couple of our new team members. We have had a couple of awesome people join
us and over the next couple of weeks we will be introducing them to you.

We love for you to know everything. We are an open book so you can see who
is helping us out and if you have any questions or comments feel free to leave
them in the comment section below or leave your thoughts on our
Social Media pages.

We appreciate everything that all of you have done to support us as we
share our message and feel free to reach out anytime!
​
I guess that’s it! Talk to you soon
Geordie


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Hi everyone, I am sitting outside the high school in Bracebridge
with my friends Kianna, Tanner (my son) and Daniel. We are here at
Battle of the Books where these kids have read ten books (well, most of them have…) and they are competing against other schools. The moderator says
quotes from a book and these kids have to figure out which book it came from.

It is absolutely incredible and although winning is not everything, so far our
team has one 3/3 battles (I had to brag a little). This is something that is
amazing and it should be in every school everywhere because whether you
are athletic or not, or maybe you do not want to be on the basketball team
(although these three are also athletic) there is many ways to have fun,
compete, learn and enjoy school. I think there should be Chess, Basketball,
Volleyball and Battle of the Books.

Hey guys- How do you like being in Battle of the Books?
“It’s fun!, It great!” This has been the best day!"

I encourage everyone to start a Battle of the Books at there school.
You are amazing and awesome even if you are not athletic,
you can choose to be an amazing reader.

Will let you know how it goes, Good luck team!

As a follow up to this video, our team of incredible readers made it to the
finals and lost in the semi-final round. But in true VK Greer style,
they showed great sportsmanship and are always Champions to me!


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 I am standing in my yard on April 15th 2019. (Yes April…)
I am standing in front of what we call Mount Tanner. It’s called Mount Tanner because this is the heap of snow in front of Tanner’s window. He actually
cannot see anything but snow outside his bedroom window! I just went into
town and just heard all kinds of people griping about the weather,

oh my goodness, it's April and we still have SNOW!

Here is the thing. We live in Muskoka and often in April there is going to be a ton of snow. When we complain about the weather, if that would actually change the weather… then I say go for it and complain about the weather.

But there really is nothing we can do. The weather is going to be the weather.
​ So I say let’s refuse to complain and let’s embrace it no matter where we live, no matter what the weather. It is our choice. We can say “how nice, the sun is actually shining” or “the snow is going to melt soon” or “it’s a beautiful day”. We can choose not to complain. When I hear people complain I often wonder if they were ill, or something terrible did happen to them in their lives, would they realize how insignificant it is to complain and wish it was something different?
Just think about that for a moment. I refuse to complain about the weather,
I encourage you to do the same. Embrace it (no matter what it is.)

I would love for you to share a comment about how wonderful the weather
is wherever you live - even if this is what your yard looks like on April 15th!
Have a great day everyone!

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I want to share some information about an amazing organization called PARO. PARO is not an acronym, it is actually a Latin word meaning I am Ready.
This is one of the most incredible organizations ever who empower
entrepreneurial women to start their business and grow their business.
They support women through education and financial assistance
personally and professionally.

Their founder is one of the most incredible women I have ever met.
Her name is Rosalind Lockyer, and I am excited to share with you a radio
interview that we did together and had Rosalind as my guest. You will learn
so much about her and her vision, everything she has brought to women
across Ontario, and I encourage you to listen in. You will learn so much more.
If you are a woman that would love some support either personally or professionally…check out PARO.ca. Listen to the interview, learn more,
you will not be disappointed. Often women do not support each other
very well and it’s time for change.

This amazing organization that I spoke for in Huntsville honoured me
with this incredible award as Impact Social Entrepreneur. This is what
they do. They support women and everything that they do. You will not be disappointed. Find out more, join this organization.
Thank you for everything that you do. I am SO grateful.

Listen here to
Rosalind's Radio Interview


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I just wanted to share my beautiful experience March 30th 2019.
I was on stage, delivering my talk at TEDx Orillia, and it was one of the most amazing, incredible, exhilarating and terrifying experiences of my entire life.

Going from being absolutely petrified to speak publicly, to writing a book, becoming a speaker and then to me, this was my Olympic.
My dream came true, I delivered a TEDx talk.

I had so many people, family and friends that were there to support me,
the speakers were amazing and these daffodils were my one prop. I even
received this postcard from Patch Adams who I mentioned in my talk as my inspiration in my whole nursing career and he sent me the postcard
congratulating me and telling me to have fun at my TEDx talk.

I could not have done this without the help of so many people. First, 
Beth Grixti who said to me “Would you ever consider doing a TED talk?”
And I thought she was joking knowing it was my dream.

She saw the value in my message, she shared it with Rick Talbot,
the organizer who also I cannot thank enough for seeing the value in my
message and feeling like it was an idea worth spreading.
He was the one who invited me to speak.

I also have my dear friend, mentor and coach Joseph Ranseth, who answered
so many of my questions about my TEDx talk and helping me to craft my message.

I want to thank everyone on stage, behind the stage, the speakers,
the volunteers for this incredible experience, it is a dream come true,
and to anyone anywhere, out there that has a dream that thinks maybe
they cannot do it, it cannot come true, even if it takes longer than you thought,
this has been my dream for many years… GO FOR IT!

And you too can be on the TEDx stage, and get the t shirt.


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I visited The Elizabeth Hospice, in San Diego, and sat in the Volcano Room,
with my new friend Melissa Lunardini. She gave us a tour and we are learning more about it. Melissa shares:

I am the Children’s Bereavement Manager, and we run support centers for grieving children and teens, ages 3 to 18, who have been impacted by the
death of a loved one. Kids and their families can get support on an ongoing
basis. We run grief camps over the summer and we are also in the schools offering 8 week onsite group support.

This is a community-based program, which means that while children are
in their own group, the adults in their lives who are caring for them, get
support at the same time. And it’s FREE of charge.

Incredible. We have toured the facility and there’s crafts, places kids can
draw on the walls and a tree, where they can write the names of people who
have died that they are missing, and what’s the volcano room?

The volcano room is one of our themed rooms.
We call this the big energy room. It’s where kids can express and
explore heavy and hard emotions such as anger, guilt, regret, confusion,
anxiety or jealousy. It’s giving them permission to have these feelings,
but also teaching them that there are safe ways for them to release those
feelings. We have quite a few themed rooms throughout our centre,
to allow children to tap into whatever works best for them,
in order to process their grief.

You can find information at
www.elizabethhospice.org

And if you are not in the area, you are welcome to reach out (even if you live
in another country!) We are happy to connect you with resources in your hometown. Anyone, anywhere can access support and I encourage you to do so,
if you are grieving. Reach out! You are never alone!

Melissa, thank you for all that you do! This is such a special place and a
hard journey for many people, and I have no doubt that you are helping
them along the way and making a big difference.

Keep Showing Up Everyone! xo


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This is a great story about a grandmother's love for her family.
She has left a personal gift for everyone. A memory that will continue to
live on for generations. This is her legacy.

What is your legacy?

Click here to read
the full article
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One of the greatest opportunities in my new career, is meeting
incredible people, like Steve Beatty.

Steve discovered that he was positive for the Huntington Gene;
a rare disease that affects people mentally, physically, emotionally.
So not only does he live with knowing this, but he is aware that his children
have a 50% chance of inheriting this gene.

But instead of staying in anger or self-pity, Steve and his wife Michelle
chose to educate themselves, be a part of studies, and start a chapter in their
area so they could connect with and support others. Steve has even written
a book about his journey, called “The In-Between Years” and donates
100% back to the Huntington Society Canada. I would encourage everyone
to purchases this wonderful book on Amazon!

They say that “Not all heroes wear capes.” And I have met many.
And one of them is Steve Beatty. 

Here is a link to purchase
The In-Between Years

Here is a link to watch Steve's Interview on
my #RealLifeTalks television Show


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I am back in the Hunters Bay Radio studio with Lynda Cranney,
talking about life as a female police officer.  We chatted about what’s important--
Just Showing Up Yourself and each other.

Lynda shares:  “It’making sure you are showing up for yourself, physically
and mentally— and staying healthy. And checking in with your partners after a
bad call, or even after a good call. Always good to check in on every call and ask,
“Hey, how did that make you feel?””
 
I added, “It is so important, isn’t it? And to check in afterwards as well.
And to keep checking in.”

Lynda: “Doesn’t have to be the next day. It can be the next week.
And when you see that they’re having a bad day—it could be a month later.

Yes, because a grief attack can happen anytime.
This is good advice for everyone—even when you’re not a police officer.
Take care of yourself and check in with others!

Lynda has been a police officer for 28 years. If a young female asks you,
would you say this is a good career to pursue?

“Absolutely. It’s a great career. It can take you in a lot of different directions.
It’s never the same and it’s rewarding. It’s sad, it’s good, it’s bad, it’s
everything—the whole gamut.”

Thank you, Lynda, for everything that you do. And thank you to every
police officer and first responder, for choosing careers to help and keep us safe!

Please don’t ever forget to:
Just Show Up for Yourself First and
Just Show Up for Each Other!

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A couple of years ago I received a wonderful package from Russia
from a wonderful woman named Tatyana Grigoreva . She was someone who
came across the Howell family when Dara Howell she was competing at Sochi Olympics in 2014, and came home with a gold medal for slope style skiing.

She was so taken with the Canadians and somehow she stumbled across me
and the work that I do with Love Your Life to Death and she so kindly sent me a package  a few years ago with all kinds of gifts from Russia. This reminds me
that friendship knows no borders. We should never judge people for where they live, the color of their skin or the language they speak. Love is love.
You can love people and have friendships from all over the world.

I have just recently received another package from Tatyana. Christmas presents!
Handmade gifts! Colorful doilies and pillows and gorgeous socks, there’s
cards and pictures and a letter written in Russian and translated into English.

I just so appreciate this Tatyana, thank you. I love having a friend in Russia and
I think that someday we should meet in person! Thank you for reaching out all
the way to Canada and for opening your heart. All of these gifts mean so much,
and this is a great reminder to everyone else that love and friendship knows
no borders. Something to always remember.

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In any given year, 1 in 5 people in Canada
will personally experience a mental health problem or illness.

An estimated 70 percent of adults in the United States have experienced
a traumatic event at least once in their lives and up to 20 percent of these
people go on to develop post-traumatic stress disorder, or PTSD.

PTSD can develop after a person has experienced or witnessed a traumatic
or terrifying event. PTSD is a lasting consequence of traumatic ordeals that
cause intense fear, helplessness or horror.

The hard truth is that this can happen to anyone, anywhere, anytime.
The good news is that there is hope for finding joy again, new purpose and
post-traumatic growth.

As we learn to Just Show Up for ourselves and others, without judgement
and trying to fix it, we can create change. We can live in a society that lets
us know we are not alone, that listens and hears our story. Because it is in that support, validation and sharing our stories that we heal ourselves and others.

Natalie Harris, unapologetically shares her story of PTSD, addiction, recovery
and creating a new life she loves. She is passionately helping others through
her books, speaking and changing the world.

“Thank you, Natalie, for being a light for those who are in darkness and
cannot see. Thank you for helping them to see that life can be good again.”

​
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It’s not hard to do.
Random acts of kindness can happen anywhere, anytime, anyplace…to anyone.
When you give a compliment or help someone in need,
no matter how big or small it is, they feel better and so do you.

This video is a great example of how one random act of kindness
changed so many lives. I challenge all of you, to reach out and do one small
thing. The ripple effect of your actions will change more than you will ever know. It’s OK to help. Everyone wins!

Share your random act of kindness below.
Did you give or receive?
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 I am in the Hunters Bay studio with my good
friend Deb Knobelsdorf. We just had a wonderful conversation that could have been so much longer. Deb is one of the first people I interviewed for my book.
I wanted to learn more about her story after her son Kyle was killed in a plane crash in May 2007. Our show will air on Feb 9th at 8 am and then be available
on the podcast (here).

"Deb, tell everyone what else you are up to?"

Last year I did the Muskoka Novel Marathon (link) and I just wanted to get
Kyle’s story out there, so wrote a book and I called it Finding Life after Death.
It’s still in draft form, it has received good reviews, but did not win because it
is nonfiction, but I wanted to write it. (And everyone has told me too also!)
It needs to be four times as long to be a REAL book but I needed to write it.

This year I am participating in the Muskoka Novel Marathon again but I will be writing a fiction book, I will make up a story but still dealing around grief.

"After Kyle died, not only did you take the grief course at hospice in Huntsville you have also been a grief facilitator for over 10 years." Deb has helped more people then she knows and she is happy to have people reach out to her
if  they are struggling.
 
People know where to find me (Down at West Side Fish and Chips) You can always call West Side and ask to speak to Deb and I am happy to have a coffee with you-

"Be careful… you might be flooded with calls!"

You humble me, I don’t think I am that popular.
I am happy to sit and chat with anyone if they feel they need to.

That's wonderful, in our conversation we also shared that just recently in our community a lovely young man named Drew Jones,
who went to high school here, died out west.

I know that you "Cheers to Kyle" every year with Jägermeister, but this is
Elderberry juice. Lets have a toast to Peter’s son Jamie, to Drew and Kyle and to everyone who has had a loss. Here is to all of them and to
​Being the Evidence that their lives made a Difference!

Elderberry! So much better than Jägermeister!
Bye for Now!

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I’m sharing a couple of things that have been so meaningful for me recently.
Last week I marched in very cold weather for the Women’s March Muskoka,
2019. I was so taken with the men, women and children who marched
along with their signs, being a voice for change.

I’ve often heard people saying, “Feminism!!” And think it’s Rah Rah Rah,
and announce that they are not a feminist. Really, it’s just about rights,
respect, inclusion, equal pay, safety. Isn’t this something we all want for
our spouses, mothers, sisters, daughters—for all the women we know?

 It’s just a voice for basic human rights. It was a very moving experience
(this year and last) and something I was very proud to be a part of.

And another great moment was interviewing Heather Hay on my ROGERStv
show, Real Life Talks. She is truly an amazing person who is a voice for elder abuse prevention and also the President of Fierte Pride Canada.

When I think about women’s rights, advocacy for our elderly population
and for our LGBTQ community…it’s all the same message! It’s about
 Just Showing Up, letting people know they have value, they matter and
they deserve happiness and to be respected.

The greatest message that Heather shared was, Be the One Who Cares.
I love that. Be the one who cares when anyone is being neglected, abused,
bullied… if you see something, say something.

It’s the same message no matter what the situation.
I encourage everyone to watch this episode with Heather, march when you
can or be a voice for everyone. We are all each other’s responsibility.
​
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aiduXrkTmj8 

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For my blog this week, I am introducing you to Eric Goll.
Eric is a wonderful person making a difference. I’ve included a link to the podcast we did together too. I hope you find this information helpful!
 
The mission of Empowering Ability Podcast:

 At Empowering Ability, we’re about creating equal opportunities for people
with intellectual or developmental disabilities. It is our mission to help you
help your loved ones enjoy life to its fullest, EVERY DAY.

https://www.empoweringability.org/single-post/YvonneHeath
 
 
Eric & Sarah's Story
 
I'm Eric Goll, and this is a picture of my older sister (Sarah), and I.
Sarah was born with a disability that impacts her both intellectually and physically. We grew up with what we both consider typical sibling relationship; 
we played, we laughed, we cried, and we fought with each other.
 
I noticed things were different when I was about 8 years old as I pushed my
big sister's stroller in the mall. As I pushed Sarah, I started to notice people
were staring at us, especially the other kids. As the other kids stared,
I stared back. I stuck out my tongue at them, and on occasion I even gave them
the middle finger (I was a secret bad ass 8 year old). I asked myself why were
they staring? I realized my family was different than theirs.
 
In my 20's, I started to distance myself from my family as my sister sat at home isolated in my parents basement. Tension built as my sister tried to be
her own person, but my parents kept her safeguarded making decisions they thought were best. My sister rebelled, and our family started to fall apart. 

I had a decision to make; keep my head stuck in the sand, or become a contributing and compassionate brother and son. I chose the latter and it has
been a trans-formative experience for me, and my family. I coached with my
sister to design and create the life she wanted for herself. Sarah now lives
with me, directs her own support, and has control over her decisions with
support from her circle of support. 
​
Through this experience with my family I found my purpose: to support
 families in creating their version of their best lives. I firmly believe that our
best lives are ordinary lives (not special), and lived in relationship in our communities. As a coach and a podcast host, my job is to support families to 
live a powerful and joyful life, and to share with you the best tools and
resources available from world class leaders in disability. Be assured, these
tools are much better than the tool I could have taught you when I was 8
years old (giving society the middle finger). If my story resonates with you
and you are supporting someone with a disability to live their best life,
I would love it if you came along on this journey together.

We can stay connected by subscribing to my blog/ podcast or
if you can inquire about working with me!

With Love and Respect,
Eric Goll
 
Here is a link to the podcast with Eric and I.

​
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For my first I Just Showed Up radio show of 2019, (airing Saturday
January 12th, then available on the podcast [Here]
I decided to highlight the incredible guests of 2018; so many phenomenal
people taking their life experiences—the good, the bad, the challenges, the
traumas—and they created something good out of it. They share their stories,
they are helping and supporting others in their communities. They are going above and beyond. Truly extraordinary.

So if their story resonates with your story, perhaps they are someone you can
reach out to. Because that’s what they’re all about; people helping people. I am truly honoured to have had them on my show. 2019 is going to be an
extraordinary year!

Here are some highlights:

*We are creating our online program,
which will be available in the next few months

*March 7th:
Keynote Speaker at PARO Event at Hidden Valley Resort
in Huntsville, ON. Supports enterprising women.
https://goo.gl/tr17YK

*March 21st:
Volunteer at the Global Influence Summit in San Diego,CA.
For Transformational Thought Leaders.
https://goo.gl/u4sSfm

*March 30th:
Speaker at TEDxOrillia
https://goo.gl/vgFkho

                               
And that’s only the beginning.
Thank you, everyone, for all that you do.
Keep up the great work!

Let’s make 2019 TRANSFORMATIONAL,
INCREDIBLE AND AMAZING!! 

​2018 “I Just Showed Up” Radio Guests:

1.Allie Chisolm- Smith
Co-founder of Enliven-living well with a cancer diagnosis.http://www.enlivenmuskoka.ca/


2.Kevin Cutler: 
Trainer/Facilitator for International Institute for Restorative Practice Canada https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-cutler-844042114/

Real Life Talks guest: https://goo.gl/1FZcHu

3.Robert Alldred-Hughes:
Sharing his journey of “coming out” in his twenties, and living a life he loves in Muskoka!

4.Karen Litchfield:
Co-founder of The Clothes Closet, located at Huntsville High School. https://www.facebook.com/theclothesclosetHHS/


4.Suzanne Witt-Foley:
Speaker and Mental Health First Aid Educator
https://www.suzannewittfoley.com/

Real Life Talks guest: https://goo.gl/DxSLzM
 
6.Claudette Chartrand:
Healing Facilitator https://wavesofhealing.ca/  


7.Eva Zachary and Jody North:
Muskoka Victim Services-Support for victims of crime and tragedy. http://muskokavs.ca/


8.Carolyn Vandyken:
Reg. physiotherapist, specializing in pelvic health issues for men and women https://www.physioworksmuskoka.com/

Real Life Talks guest: https://goo.gl/peY3yf

9.Gael Bishop:
Fitness From Within-Coaching For Life. (Facebook)
Gael shared her story of alcoholism and getting the help she needed!
 
10.Ciara Thompson:
From bullied to Miss Canada 2017.
​Advocate for homelessness.
Now entering Miss Galaxy Pageant
 
 
11.Paul Mascarin:
From Muskoka Kia.
e a volunteer as an individual, support your community as a company
 
12.Valerie Fleck:
Co-founder of 100 Women Who Care Muskoka.
​Supporting local charities! https://www.100wwcmuskoka.com/
 
13.Heather Berg:
Founder of the Table Soup Kitchen Foundation.
Bringing Community together to help others.
https://thetablefoundation.ca/


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                          Stay tuned for Yvonne's TEDx talk in 2019!

If you are like me, you’ve made New Year’s Resolutions every year.
You may have followed through with some, and not with others. The ones that
fell to the wayside made you feel guilty and critical of yourself. You may have
been bound and determined to really stick to your guns the next year and lose
that weight, quit smoking, save money, etc.

Did it work, or did you see yourself as a failure again? It is great to have goals,
but not great to be your worst critic. Why not become your biggest fan and lean into whatever it is you’d like to change?

That’s what I have finally done in the second act of my life. If it takes you less
than five decades to get there, more power to you! I used to be so hard on myself when I did not accomplish what I set out to do. I would berate myself for failing again and compare myself to others. I focused on all that I didn’t do well and minimized my accomplishments. No more.

It truly is sad that we often will speak to ourselves in a way that we wouldn’t
speak to others. We sure wouldn’t tolerate hearing others speak to those
we care about in that way.

Well, I’ve fired my inner critic. Although I can still hear that negative voice
in the background (never really goes away), I now pay attention and catch it.
I let it know, “Thanks, but I’m not interested in what you have to say!”
I’ve become my greatest cheerleader, my inner coach. Isn’t that a much better
way to live? I don’t depend on others for that pat on the back or that “Way to go!”
I give it to myself and tell myself what a great job I’ve done. Of course, it’s nice
to hear from others, but I don’t count on it.

When I do make a mistake or break a promise to myself, I acknowledge it,
learn from it, and do better next time. No more berating. When I know I would
be better off if I broke a bad habit, but don’t feel quite ready, I start by saying,
“I want to want to.” I want to want to lose weight, quit drinking, exercise more,
or whatever it may be.

Start there. Then be kind along the path. It isn’t easy changing habits,
especially if you are surrounded by others who enable you or have the same
habits. If you truly want to change something, find people who are doing what you’d like to do! When I quit drinking on December 31st, 2015, I was not
sure if I would be successful long term. A funny thing was that one of the
things that helped me stick to it was watching how uncomfortable other
people were around a non-drinker. “Really, are you sure you don’t want something? Oh, I’m sure you can have just one!” Wow, I thought,
we really have a society that revolves around drinking!

It was a big Ah-hah moment for me, and fueled my determination.
The list of reasons to drink was pretty short; social, love red wine, calms me.
The list of why not, on the other hand, seemed endless; waste of money,
a problem when you want to drive, poor decisions made, hangovers,
munchies and poor diet, shields us from the feelings we need to feel
(especially grief), and on it went.

I’m not telling you to quit drinking, I’m saying that to be the very best version
of yourself is your greatest gift. So, if there are habits that are getting in the way
of that, start by wanting to want to change. Become your best cheerleader and coach, find others who live the way you want to live, then lean into change, knowing that it may take some time.

The greatest resolution you can make is to resolve to love yourself, be happy,
be your own best friend, take baby steps in the right direction, correct your
path with kindness, and you just never know what magic awaits you.

Celebrate you, in 2019 and always!
​
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Stay tuned for Yvonne's TEDx talk in 2019!

Well, I have to say that I am proud of myself. I tried something new,
totally out of my comfort zone. I read that there was a “Women’s Getaway” for
24 hours. 14 women getting together (most I did not know), just having a little time to unplug, maybe get to know each other but also to have time to
themselves in this busy life.

As much as I love going out and speaking being with many people, when I get home, I usually stay home. I don’t get out very often, outside of events. So I thought, “I’m going to be adventurous, I’m going to do this.” And guess what?
I had the greatest 24 hours. It was incredible. We made arts and crafts
(when is the last time you coloured or used glue?). We allowed all feelings, allowing anything for anybody; sing, dance, be on your own, have time to
yourself. Unplug, be supported, maybe create some new friendships
and get to know more about yourself.

I tried something new and spent time in a beautiful cabin on a frozen lake. Beautiful scenery. A few of us actually went for a snowshoe-7 kms around
the lake! I got to know some pretty amazing ladies.

So I encourage you to get out of your comfort zone and connect.
Because it really is all about connection. It’s about connection with yourself
and others. Something we need to do more.

We put away our cell phones and talked, danced, laughed and had fun.
It doesn’t get much better than that!

Get unplugged and really get connected.
Try something new.

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Today I am back in the Hunters Bay Studio. I am here with Heather Berg,
who founded the Table Soup Kitchen Foundation in 2006. I love this woman!
She has helped thousands of people in our community. Heather, please tell
us a little bit more about the Table Soup Kitchen Foundation.

We have 6 different services that we provide free of charge to the community, anyone can come for any length of time. You can come once or as many
times as you need to.

*The Table Soup Kitchen (Meals at two local churches on Monday and Thursday)

*The Table Food Bank which is open 3 days a week (9 Hanes St)

*The Table Exchange Store in the same building where you can exchange anything you have for something else at no charge,

*The Table Love Connection-our extra special programs- kids Christmas shopping, gifts for kids, music, back to school supplies etc. Taking what someone wants to share and pass it on to someone who needs that love. That’s why it is the love connection… (Not to be confused with a dating service!)

It’s incredible, everything you do! If someone is having a hard time, even if
it is temporary, they can just come by and see you. You help anybody anytime.
I love that!
​
People can learn more about our programs at www.thetablefoundation.ca.
We have a donate button, and a place where you can get in touch with us if
you would like to volunteer. Come by and check it out! We can give you a tour,
I also wanted to mention the last two programs we offer-

*A community kitchen as well as the men’s shelter.

It’s a hub of activity we just want to bring our community together
and Just Show Up!

Go see the table soup kitchen, you will be amazed and want to be a part of it.
Every little bit of time or money helps. Thank you Heather. You are amazing.
Find a table soup kitchen in your community and if there is not one…
start one like Heather did!

Don’t forget to tune in to our radio show on Sat Dec 15 at 8am right here on Hunters Bay Radio 88.7 fm

Thank you for being part of our community!
Purchase your copy of Love Your Life to Death here,
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#IJustShowedUp bracelet. 

There are many ways to Just Show Up.
Not only at certain times of the year. This is a great clip shared by "@Appreciate" showcasing a gentleman who regularly visits a Neonatal ICU in Atlanta.

For the last 12 years David Deutchman hugs, holds and talks to all the little
people that need some extra love. He is a"baby buddy".
They call him the ICU Grandpa.

Over the next few weeks or even months, take some time, and think;
What could I do to Just Show Up and make a difference in someone else's life?

It does not need to take a lot of time, effort, or even money,
​but it will make a difference! Thank you "ICU Grandpa" for Just Showing Up.

We love sharing great stories of individuals that know the importance of the #IJustShowedUp movement. Feel free to connect and share your story with us.

​
Thank you for being part of our community!
Purchase your copy of Love Your Life to Death here,
 our Audio, From Avoidance to Resilience or your
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Hello everyone, I submit a monthly article to Community Living Ontario,
and thought I'd share this one with you. As the Christmas season approaches,
emotions are heightened; for some it's the greatest time of year and for others
it's the hardest. Please reach out to those who are struggling. I promise, it will bring you even more joy to know that you Just Showed Up for someone in need!

Ah Christmas! A time of family, friends, loved ones, great meals, and lots of presents, right? Or is it not so happy holidays? Is it a time of loneliness, stress, and arguing?  Maybe you even fight about what the season should be called?
It’s a time for all of it. For some, their favourite season, for others the most dreaded time of year. So, what can we do to change that?

I must admit that I have my own work to do, to not feel anxious about the upcoming season. I will not be lonely and will most likely receive a gift or two, even though I’m not one for lots of gift-giving. My anxiety comes from being
an empath, and watching the people around me suffering and others
who create their own excessive suffering.

Throughout the years, I have watched people joylessly shop, shove, and push through crowds and complain about how much money they have to spend on gifts.

I have heard stories of having to travel to several different places to appease ALL family members over the holidays with the obligatory visit. Others “slave
over a hot stove” for days upon days in preparation for the large crowd to feed, who may or may not bring food, and will they help with cleaning up?
Maybe, maybe not.

I have watched nurses and others who had to work on December 25th and
 not have their loved ones with them that day, completely fall apart.

So, I have to work at rising above the angst at a time we should be celebrating
love, regardless of what Christmas does or does not mean to us. If it is not a religious celebration for you, it is still most likely a time with holidays,
children out of school, and an opportunity to reflect on what is good in life.
It can also be a time for reflection as the New Year approaches.

But how can we re-frame the negative? How can we create more happiness and
less stress? How? By knowing that we have a choice. It is our choice to make, whether someone else agrees or not. I choose to be happy.
Here is my two cents and unsolicited advice:

1. Call it whatever you’d like.
Christmas, Hanukkah, the Holidays, Feliz Navidad…  whatever resonates
with you. Don’t fret about what your neighbours call it. To each their own.

2. If you want to buy gifts, buy gifts.
If you don’t, don’t. If you choose to, buy gifts within your budget.
Shop early, get things on sale (well, if it’s too late for that, try this next year!). Why do we have to be extravagant? Is that real meaning of this holiday?
Isn’t love and togetherness enough?

If you’re buying gifts, why not purchase certificates for outings together,
like tubing, bowling, movie night, eating at a restaurant, swimming and so on.
We are a society of consumers and over-spenders. Only you can change that.
My husband, Geordie, and I only buy a few gifts for our children, and we set a reasonable limit. The rest of the family, our presence is our present.
That’s it, and that’s good enough!

3. One person doing all of the cooking? I don’t think so.
Even if someone loves to cook, should they really miss out on fun festivities?
If they insist on doing all the cooking, they most certainly should not be doing
any of the cleaning. I have met many people, mostly women, who are martyrs; doing all the cooking and cleaning themselves, and complaining about it.
How does everyone else just let that happen?

I’m sorry. The 1950s are over. If we have a dinner at our house, it’s potluck. Everyone brings something and everyone helps to clean up. Even the children
help to clear the table and wipe the counters. It helps them to become thoughtful adults. “Many hands make light work” makes holidays more pleasant for everyone.

4. My last and most important point.
There are many, many people who have to work on December 25th or cannot
be with their loved ones. And others who are facing their first Christmas
after the death of someone they loved dearly.

For those working or not able to be with loved ones that day, celebrate
another day. Period. Create a grateful day wherever you are on December 25th.
As the song goes, “if you can’t be with ones you love, then love the ones you’re with.” Others who are working or not with their families wish they could be
with them too. Make your time together as awesome as possible.
You get to be the person who brings joy to the day.

If you are someone who is going through the holidays alone or you are
grieving—whatever your loss may be—take extra good care of yourself. Do what
you need to do for you. If you want to be alone, be alone. Acknowledge and
allow your feelings. If you want to be with people, do that. Don’t worry about
not being cheery or bringing others down. Let them love you and carry you
though. Request that they acknowledge and allow your feelings and not to try
to fix you. You can’t fix grief, it’s a natural part of healing. Just Show Up
for yourself, and let others Just Show Up for you. (I’m always here too!)

If you want to feel true happiness in your life and throughout the year,
each and every day, live by the wise word of our Great Uncle Ken:

Help people, help people, help people. Never stop helping people!

May you find love and gratitude this season and always,
no matter what else comes your way.

​
Community Living Ontario Editor's note: 
​Yvonne Heath is an inspirational speaker and makes periodic contributions to Update Friday. Her message often relates to grief and loss, and how we can overcome them in the different aspects of our lives. Click here to read her introductory article. Yvonne is also the author of Love Your Life to Death. Click here to order your copies today.

​I am just off to a meeting but wanted to take a moment to share how
excited (and thankful) we are about everything that happened in 2018.

2018 was incredible, we shared our message near and far -
even in Kelowna – for the Huntington Society of Canada Conference.
One of the greatest honours of my life!

We have so many things coming up, that we are just twitching with excitement.
But, we cannot tell you everything - just yet.
We can share that we will be have a wonderful Christmas special,
and...

 In the New Year I will have my on-line program available!  
I am thrilled to be able to offer that to you in early 2019.
and...

We also (after two years) have created our affiliate program!
This program can support individuals and organizations with their fundraising goals. The best part is that it is all 100% automated.

Anywhere around the world, we can help! 
Feel free to connect with Geordie (here) to learn more.

We also have just a couple of other things…but I can’t share just yet.

Thank you everyone!

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